Tantric massage is not a step-by-step process. It could for example
include erotic dance movements, or the giver sliding body-to-body up
and down the receiver, or gentle stroking or tickling of the skin, or
just being close to your partner concentrating on his or her breathing
and scent. By sharing another person’s space and time zone, it
is a massage of the senses as well as the body and not just a way to
gain arousal. However, arousal is an important part of the healing
process and should be an integral part of the massage as sexual energy
is the main focus in a Tantric massage.
Above all
else, the treatment I offer is centred
around you, my goddess for the evening.
It is your sacred space and time in which to enjoy your own
sensuality and experience the healing process in your own way. Everyone
is different and all my clients have their own unique reasons for
wanting a tantric massage treatment.
Our
arousal triggers vary from person to person, which is why I take the
time before the massage ritual to find out 'what makes you tick'. As a
result, the massage itself will vary from one client to the next and
each time will be different for the same person because I am led by
my instincts. However the tantric massage 'ritual' can be roughly
categorised into several distinct stages, and the session will start
with us both clothed in either a silk robe or sarong for a 'worshipping
ceremony'. At this point we will both be standing for an initial
grounding exercise designed to: create a temporary emotional bond
between us; sensitise your skin; rid you of your negative energies; and
relax you (I do all the work - you remain passive throughout).
Towards
the end of this first phase our robes are removed, and normally we will
both be naked however I am happy to wear shorts if this is your
preference (you can also wear a thong if you feel more comfortable and
you do not wish to experience the yoni massage).
I
will then lead you to the massage table and invite you to climb up and
lie on your front for the second phase which includes some deep massage
work to relieve the tension in your back, arms, shoulders & neck.
The third
phase is very sensual and involves lighter stroking
techniques utilising props such as feathers, silk, a brush, etc. (or
anything else that you care to provide that you find particularly
sensual to the touch).
Then, the final part of the
treatment on this half of your body includes a mixture of firm and
slow, light, sensual massage strokes using warmed oil.
You will
then be invited to turn over and phases 3 & 4 are repeated on your
front half. Up to this point you will have experienced at least two
hours of heavenly bliss.
Some people find this to be just the
right amount of sensuality to enhance their sexual well-being and
improve the flow of their sexual energies. However, normally most women
prefer to continue to the optional Yoni Massage.
This simply exquisite part of the treatment concentrates on the pubic
and vaginal areas and also includes a G-spot massage. For most, this is
the pinnacle of sensual experiences often resulting in one or many
orgasms (although an orgasm isn’t the goal with this treatment).
I
should point out that the Yoni Massage is
entirely optional and you will be given the choice at the end of the
main treatment. The most important thing is for you to feel relaxed, at
ease, and ready to open up, otherwise you will not experience the full
benefit of this fantastic, truly holistic treatment.
Please
note that due to the intimate nature of this treatment and close body
contact, I expect you to bathe or shower before my arrival. Additionally
I will always do the same so that you can be completely assured of my
cleanliness.
